2016年职称英语卫生类补全短文备考模拟试题

When do people decide whether or not they want to become friends?During their first four minutes together,according to a book by ard his book,"Contact: The first four minutes",he offers this advice to anyone __(1)___: "Every time you meet someone in a social situation,give him your undivided attention for four minutes.A lot of people's whole lives would change if they did just that".

You may have noticed that the average person does not give his undivided attention to someone he has just keeps looking over the other person's shoulder,as if __(2)__ anyone has ever done this to you,you probably did not like him very much.

When we are introduced to new people,the author suggests,we should try to appear friendly and general,he says,"People like people who like themselves".

On the other hand,we should not make the other person think we are too sure of is important to appear interested and sympathetic,realizing that the other person has his own needs,fears,and hopes.

Hearing such advice,one might say,"But I'm not a friendly,self-confident 's not my would be dishonest for me to act that way".

In reply,n would claim that a little practice can help us __(3)__ can become accustomed to any changes we choose to make in our personality."It is like getting used to a new may be unfamiliar at first,but it goes much better than the old one."

But isn't it dishonest to give the appearance of friendly self-confidence when we don't actually feel that way?Perhaps,but according to n,'total honesty" is not always good for social relationships,especially during the first few minutes of e is a time for everything,and a certain amount of play-acting may be best for the first few minutes of contact with a is not the time to complain about one's health or to mention faults one finds in other is not the time to tell the whole truth about one's opinions and impressions.

Much of __(4)__ also applies to relationships with family members and a husband and wife or a parent and child,problems often arise during their first four minutes together after they have been n suggests that these first few minutes together be treated with there are unpleasant matters to be discussed,they should be dealt with later.

The author says that interpersonal relations should be taught as a required course in every school,along with reading,writing,and his opinion,success in life depends mainly on __(5)_ is at least as important as how much we know.

　　EXERCISE:

A)Feel comfortable about changing our social habits

B)What has been said about strangers

C)How we get along with other people

D)Interested in starting new friendships

E)Hoping to find someone more interesting in another part of the room

F)Who are eager to make friends with everyone

　　【KEY:DEABC】